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New Jersey divorce article
PREPARATION
OF
PENDENTE
LITE APPLICATIONS
Presented
By:
Charles
F. Vuotto, Jr., Esq.
Wilentz, Goldman & Spitzer
90 Woodbridge Center Drive
P.O. Box 10
Woodbridge, NJ 07095-0958
Telephone: (732) 855-6014
Facsimile: (732) 726-6535
2000
INTRODUCTION
It is
very often the case that the results of a pendente lite application in a matrimonial litigation will set the
tone for the rest of the case and may very well effect the ultimate outcome.
If an unequal or unfair result occurs early on in the case, it could
spell disaster to one party. It
is usually through pendente lite motions that the judge who will likely be assigned to
the matter, will first become familiar with the parties.
This will also be the first time that the judge will learn the
critical facts regarding the parties’ marriage, separation, children and
other critical facts relevant to the dissolution proceedings.
This first impression is one of the most critical aspects of any
matrimonial litigation.
APPLICABLE RULES
It can
never hurt to review some of the applicable Family Part Rules of Court that
control matrimonial matters. Here
is a summary of some key rules that are particularly relevant to pendente
lite motions:
·
R. 5:3-5
Attorney Fees & Retainer Agreements
·
R. 5:3-7
Remedies for Violation of Orders for Parenting
Time, Alimony or Support
·
R. 5:5-2
Case Information Statements
·
R. 5:5-4
Motions in Family Actions
·
R. 5:6A
Child Support Guidelines
·
R. 5:6B
Cost-of-Living Adjustments for Child Support Orders
A brief review of these rules will assure that the requirements of a pendente
lite motion are met (e.g., page limts under R. 5:5-4(b), filing due
dates under R. 5:5-4(c) and Notice requirements under R. 5:5-4(d)).
CASE
INFORMATION STATEMENTS
Remember, with few exceptions, R. 5:5-2 requires that a Case
Information Statement be filed in every contested family action within 20
days of the filing of an Answer or Appearance.
The CIS must follow the form in Appendix V of the Rules.
Parties must amend their CIS’s as facts change.
Therefore, there are very few instances, if any, when it is not
appropriate to attach a completed CIS to a pendente
lite motion.
CONTENTS OF PENDENTE
LITE MOTIONS
Although the contents of a pendente
lite motion are fact sensitive and will change from case to case, there
are certain common themes that are routinely seen.
It is good to know the general areas that may be addressed in such a
motion so that they are not forgotten when preparing your application.
·
Temporary Custody and Time Sharing Issues;
·
Restraints on the dissipation of assets;
·
Payment of direct expenses for Shelter (Schedule “A”) and
Transportation (Schedule “B”);
·
Direct Support (Alimony and/or Child Support)
(Don’t forget to address the taxability of any alimony or
unallocated payments);
·
Maintenance of medical and life insurance;
·
Payment of unreimbursed health care costs;
·
Payment of marital liabilities;
·
Sole possession of marital home;
·
Sole possession of certain vehicle(s);
·
Maintenance of other assets (e.g., rental or shore
properties);
·
Production of discovery (if requirements of R. 1:6-2(c) have
been met);
·
Appointment of Experts and Payment of their fees
·
Counsel Fees (both as to the motion and a pendente
lite award)
Although this is certainly not an exhaustive list, it will certainly
provide a fine outline around which a comprehensive pendente
lite motion may be prepared.
MARITAL HISTORY
Before
an attorney can effectively represent a party in a divorce action, it is
critical that he or she know as much as possible about the parties, their
relationship, children, assets, liabilities and interactions with each other
and other people. Certainly, an
effective pendente lite
application cannot be prepared unless the attorney is adequately educated as
to all relevant facts concerning the client.
In order to educate the attorney, a “Marital History” should be
prepared with the client. This,
in conjunction with the statutory factors and Marital Lifestyle to be more
fully detailed below, will provide an extensive amount of information to the
attorney to allow him or her to effectively represent the client in all
aspects of the matrimonial litigation including, but not limited to a pendente lite application. Attached
hereto as Exhibit “A” is an outline which can be used in preparing such
a Marital History with the client.
STATUTORY FACTORS
Since
this is the first time that a client will have what he or she perceives as
an opportunity to tell his or her side of the story to the court (other than
the Complaint or Answer and Counterclaim), there is a tendency on the part
of attorneys, paralegals and clients to infuse pendente
lite applications with unnecessary emotional and irrelevant issues.
In light of recent changes in the Rules of Court imposing page
limitations, such irrelevancies have been eradicated out of necessity.
However, whether or not you are able to fit a client’s emotional
outpouring into the page limitations, it should be avoided.
Rather, in its place, emphasis should be placed on the statutory
factors that a court will ultimately need to consider if the matter is
tried. It is these statutory factors which should be the focus of
initial client interviews and pendente
lite certifications. Attached
hereto is a useful checklist which can be utilized to gather all pertinent
information with regard to the statutory factors relative to custody,
equitable distribution, alimony and child support.
(Exhibit “B”).
Judges are huge fans of the saying “less is more”.
Although it is often difficult to avoid the temptation to throw in
everything but the kitchen sink, very often this will turn a judge off.
Rather than pages and pages of text, judges are more swayed by cold
hard facts backed up by supporting documents and other proofs.
MARITAL LIFESTYLE
Over the
last two decades, the Marital Lifestyle has been a critical issue in any
divorce case. The most recent
pronouncement from our Supreme Court embodied in the case of Crews v.
Crews, 164 N.J. 11 (2000), decided May 31, 2000, has emphasized it’s
importance. As one of the most
commonly cited factors, the “marital lifestyle” must be given special
attention, both in terms of information gathering with the client at the
initial stages of the litigation and in the preparation of the pendente
lite application.
It is often difficult to address the “marital lifestyle” in the
abstract. Although people may
say they have a high, moderate or low lifestyle, that really does not give a
court enough to go on and does not adequately and effectively communicate
how the parties lived. It is
necessary to breakdown the components of the parties’ lifestyle to
effectively convey how they lived. In
doing so, there are various categories of expenditures of everyday life that
should be considered. Each and
every one may not be applicable in every case.
However, the client should be questioned about these categories to
see if they apply, and, if so, a narrative description should be prepared.
·
Marital residence
·
Vacation Homes
·
Other real estate or real property investments
·
Improvements to real estate
·
Extent of savings in bank or investment accounts
·
Extent of automobiles, boats, planes, motorcycles or other
vehicles or recreational crafts
·
Extent of vacations
·
Extent of furs and jewelry
·
Nature of stores frequented
·
Country clubs
·
Extent of entertainment, including, but not limited to:
gambling, sports and hobbies, restaurants, theatre, movies and the like
·
Extent of gifts
·
Extent of service providers such as household help, gardeners,
maintenance personnel and the like
·
Nature, extent and value of household furniture and
furnishings, including collectibles and artwork
·
Children’s expenses, including but not limited to private
school, camps, tutoring or extracurricular activities
·
Available cash
·
Available free time
·
Personal expenses run through a business
·
Pets
If the issue of the parties’ lifestyle is a hotly contested issue,
it may be appropriate to retain an accountant to perform a lifestyle
analysis. Various methods for
communicating the parties’ lifestyle to adverse counsel and the court are
explored in an article written by myself and Carl D. Gensib, C.P.A., Esq., a
forensic accountant, which is attached hereto as Exhibit “C”.
Only after the marital lifestyle is appropriately considered can a
Case Information Statement be effectively prepared.
Although this presentation will not delve into the preparation of the
Case Information Statement and the Child Support Worksheet, since that
justifies its own seminar, it is important to note that the lifestyle
analysis, if done properly, will effectively support the figures in an
accurate Case Information Statement.
CUSTODY
Although
this presentation will not address the complexities of a custody case, when
standard time sharing and related issues are in dispute between the parties
and raised in a pendente lite motion,
an effective tool for assisting the court is a detailed Parenting Plan.
Although we all know that Parenting Plans are to be filed pursuant to
R. 5:8-5, unfortunately this requirement is not often met.
Nonetheless, when timesharing and related issues are raised in pendente lite applications, submission of a proposed Parenting Plan
as part of the form of order may allow the court to adopt the proponent’s
plan if it is reasonably and fairly presented.
A sample of Parenting Plans is attached hereto and marked as Exhibit
“D”.
AFFIDAVIT
OF ATTORNEY SERVICES
Very
often, although very dear to the heart of all attorneys, the issue of
counsel fees is given short shrift in pendente
lite applications. More
importantly, counsel very often fail to file the requisite Affidavit of
Services. If they do file such
a document, it usually gives only the amount of time expended on the motion
and the hourly rate of the attorney, plus disbursements. Many counsel fail to include in their Affidavits of Attorneys
Services the factors required by R. 4:42-9 and R.P.C. 1.5(a).
Every Affidavit of Services should include the following information:
1.
Time and labor required, the novelty and difficulty of the questions
involved, and the skill requisite to perform the legal services properly;
2.
The likelihood, if apparent to the client, that the acceptance of the
particular employment will preclude other employment by the lawyers;
3.
The fee customarily charged in the locality for similar legal
services;
4.
The amount involved and the results obtained;
5.
The time limitations imposed by the client or by the circumstances;
6.
The nature and length of the professional relationship of the client;
7.
The experience, reputation and ability of the lawyer or lawyers
performing the services;
8.
The terms of the retainer agreement (with the retainer agreement
attached as Exhibit A to the affidavit of services);
9.
The amount of the allowance applied for;
10.
An itemization of disbursements for which reimbursement is sought;
11.
If reimbursement is sought for services by para professionals, the
affidavit should include a detailed statement of the time spent and services
rendered by the para professionals, a summary of the para professionals’
qualifications, and the attorney’s billing rate for para professional
services to clients generally;
12.
All applications for the allowance of fees shall state how much has
been paid to the attorney (including the amount, if any, received by the
attorney from pendente lite allowances) and what provision, if any, has been made
for the payment of fees to the attorney in the future.
It is
this writer’s position that the retainer agreement that must be executed
by all matrimonial clients should be attached as Exhibit “A” to the
Attorney’s Affidavit of Services. Further,
the bills that have been rendered to the client (appropriately redacted to
exclude any privileged material) should be attached as Exhibit “B” to
any such Affidavit of Services.
The paralegal will note that many of the items to be referenced
within the affidavits of service can only be completed by the attorney.
Some of the above factors are case specific while others will be
utilized with every Affidavit of Services that the paralegal does for any
one particular attorney.
It is critical to note that no portion of any fee allowance claimed
for attorney’s services shall duplicate in any way the fees claimed by the
attorney for para professional services rendered to the client.
R. 4:42-9(b). For
purposes of this Rule “para professional services” shall mean those
services rendered by individuals who are qualified through education, work
experience or training who perform specifically delegated tasks which are
legal in nature and under the discretion and supervision of attorneys and
which tasks an attorney would otherwise be obliged to perform.”
Id.
Remember, an allowance of fees made on a determination of the matter
shall be included in the judgment or order stating the determination. Therefore, do not forget to attach a proposed form of order
to a pendente lite application and
provide for a separate item leaving a blank so that the court may fill in
the amount of the fees if the court is intending to make such an award.
CONCLUSION
If the
above guidelines are followed with the assistance of the attached
guidelines, it is very likely that the court will be provided with all
relevant information to permit it to make an appropriate and fair award to
the benefit of your client. Although
gathering and presenting all relevant facts does not guarantee the result
that the client may wish, you can be assured that if these procedures are
routinely followed, your client will be given the best chances of achieving
his or her goals during the pendente
lite stages of the divorce litigation.
EXHIBIT
A
MARITAL
HISTORY
We also ask that you prepare, separate from the above document, a
marital history. It is
necessary that you provide this marital history in order to prepare your
complaint for divorce or appropriate responsive pleading, and in order for
us to know the relevant issues that exist between you and your spouse.
We ask that you please provide a narrative on the following topics:
1.
Educational backgrounds of you and your spouse.
2.
The medical history and present medical condition of you, your
spouse, and your children (if applicable).
3.
The employment history of you and your spouse including present
employment. Provide the periods
of employment, nature of employment, and the amounts earned.
4.
The circumstances surrounding your meeting (engagement and eventual
marriage). This should include
the date and location of your marriage, and whether it was a religious or
civil ceremony. This could also
include when you began to cohabit together, if applicable.
5.
A chronological narrative of the events leading to the breakdown of
the marriage. This is necessary
in order to determine the basis for a cause of action for divorce.
6.
A summary of any inappropriate behavior and/or actions committed by
your spouse. (This can include
such things as emotional, verbal, or physical abuse, personal or financial
misdeeds: frauds, crimes; etc.)
7.
Indicate whether or not either of you were previously married, to
whom, the length of the said marriage, and how it was terminated.
Please indicate whether either of you have children of previous
marriages.
8.
Detail all background data and any major concerns relative to the
children of the present marriage, including their birth, dates of schooling,
and any physical or mental health issues.
9.
Provide all relevant work and home telephone numbers of you and your
spouse.
10.
Provide the names of all accountants or other professionals which
have been retained by you or your spouse; or with which your spouse may have
a working relationship.
11.
Provide a chronological summary of your residences within the last
two years. This should include
those of your spouse. This is necessary for completing the complaint for divorce
and the determination of venue of this matter.
CAUSE OF ACTION
Marriage
and Children
1.
DATE OF MARRIAGE:
_____________
2.
LENGTH OF MARRIAGE: ____________
3.
CHILDREN: ____________________
___________________
_____________________
4.
DATE OF SEPARATION: __________
5.
DATE OF COMPLAINT: __________
6.
PRESENT AGE OF PARTIES:
Husband (__)
Wife (__)
7.
INCOME OF PARTIES:
Husband: $___________ per year
Wife:
$____________per year
Allegations
of Extreme Cruelty
8.
CUSTODY AND
TIMESHARING
a.
Status Quo
9.
b.
Mental Health and Fitness of Each Parent
10.
c.
Mental Health of Child
11.
d.
Stability of Home Environment
12.
e.
Physical Environment of Each Party
13.
f.
Age and Physical Health of the Parties
14.
g.
Criminal History of Either Parent or Cohabitant
15.
h.
Ability to Provide Social Development
16.
i.
Ability to Provide Religious Development
17.
j.
Ability to Provide Intellectual Development
18.
k.
The Parents’ Ability to Agree, Communicate and Cooperate on
Matters Relating to the Children
19.
l.
The Parents’ Willingness to Accept Custody and Any History of
Unwillingness to Allow Visitation, Unless Such Unwillingness Was Based on
Substantiated Abuse
20.
m.
The Interaction and Relationship of the Children With Their
Parents and Siblings
21.
n.
Any History of Domestic Violence
22.
o.
The Safety of the Children and the Safety of Either Parent From
Physical Abuse From the Other
23.
p.
The Preference of the Children When They Are of Sufficient Age and
Capacity to Form an Intelligent Decision
24.
q.
The Needs of the Children
25.
r.
The Quality and Continuity if the Children’s Education
26.
s.
The Geographical Proximity of the Parents’ Homes
27.
t.
Smoking By Either Party of Member of That Parents’ Household
28.
u.
Other Members of the Household and Their Influence on the Child
29.
EQUITABLE
DISTRIBUTION
a.
The Duration of the Marriage
30.
b.
The Age and Physical and Emotional Health of the Parties
31.
c.
The Income or Property Brought to the Marriage by Each Party
32.
d.
The Standard of Living Established During the Marriage
33.
e.
Any Written Agreement Made by the Parties Before or During the
Marriage Concerning an Arrangement of Property Distribution
34.
f.
The Economic Circumstances of Each Party at the Time the Division
of Property Becomes Effective
35.
g.
The Income and Earning Capacity of Each Party, Including
Educational Background, Training, Employment Skills, Work Experience, Length
of Absence From the Job Market, Custodial Responsibilities for Children, and
the Time and Expense Necessary to Acquire Sufficient Education or Training
to Enable the Party to Become Self-Supporting at a Standard of Living
Reasonably Comparable to That Enjoyed During the Marriage
36.
h.
The Contribution by each Party to the Education, Training or
Earning Power of the Other
37.
i.
The Contribution of Each Party to the Acquisition,
Dissipation, Preservation, Depreciation or Appreciation in the Amount or
Value of the Marital Property, as Well as the Contribution of a Party as a
Homemaker
38.
j.
The Tax Consequences of the Proposed Distribution to Each Party
39.
k.
The Present Value of the Property
40.
l.
The Need of a Parent Who Has Physical Custody of a Child to Own or
Occupy the Marital Residence and to Use or Own the Household Effects
41.
m.
The Debts and Liabilities of the Parties
42.
n.
The Need for Creation, Now or in the Future, of a Trust Fund to
Secure Reasonably Foreseeable Medical or Educational Costs for a Spouse or
Children
43.
o.
The Extent to Which a Party Deferred Achieving Their Career Goals
44.
p.
Any Other Factors Which the Court May Deem Relevant
45.
ALIMONY
a.
The Actual Need and Ability of the Parties to Pay
46.
b.
The Duration of the Marriage
47.
c.
The Age, Physical and Emotional Health of the Parties
48.
d.
The Standard of Living Established in the Marriage and the
Likelihood That Each Party Can Maintain a Reasonably Comparable Standard of
Living
49.
e.
The Earning Capacities, Educational Levels, Vocational Skills, and
Employability of the Parties
50.
f.
The Length of Absence From the Job Market and Custodial
Responsibilities For Children of the Party Seeking Maintenance
51.
g.
The Time and Expense Necessary to Acquire Sufficient Education or
Training to Enable the Party Seeking Maintenance to Find Appropriate
Employment, the Availability of the Training and Employment, and the
Opportunity for Future Acquisitions of Capital Assets and Income
52.
h.
The History of the Financial or Non-Financial Contributions
to the Marriage by Each Party Including Contributions to the Care and
Education of the Children and Interruption of Personal Careers or
Educational Opportunities
53.
i.
The Equitable Distribution of Property Ordered and Any Payouts on
Equitable Distribution, Directly or Indirectly, Out of Current Income, to
the Extent This Consideration is Reasonable, Just and Fair
54.
j.
Any Other Factors Which the Court May Deem Relevant
55.
CHILD
SUPPORT
Child
Support Guidelines Assumptions
56.
THE “LIFESTYLE
ANALYSIS”
By
Charles F. Vuotto, Esq.
and
Carl D. Gensib,
CPA, Esq.
Preliminary
Statement
With the coming of the most recent pronouncement from our Supreme
Court embodied in the case of Crews
v. Crews, 164 N.J. 11 (2000), decided May 31, 2000, the requirement
that litigants, matrimonial attorneys and family court judges know,
appreciate and appropriately consider the “marital lifestyle” has risen
to an all time high. The CREWS decision essentially requires a “baseline” for the support
structure to be set. There are
two critical aspects of that baseline: (1) Income upon which support was
based and (2) marital lifestyle. The
obligation for a trial court to make a finding of the “marital lifestyle,”
even in a settled case, creates a universal need for a uniform approach to
analyzing the “marital lifestyle” and conveying that lifestyle to one’s
adversary and, ultimately, to the court.
This article will suggest three methods of presenting the necessary
baseline, including the “marital lifestyle”, in the course of a
matrimonial action from settlement to uncontested hearing or trial.
A Brief History
of “Lifestyle”
As we know, the CREWS
decision has made it clear that, in a post judgment application to modify
alimony, the court must determine whether the supported spouse can maintain
a lifestyle that is reasonably comparable to the standard of living enjoyed
during the marriage. Id at 17
The Supreme Court stated that “identifying the marital standard of
living at the time of the original divorce decree, regardless of whether a
maintenance order is entered by the court or a consensual agreement is
reached, becomes critical, then, to any subsequent assessment of changed
circumstances when an adjustment to alimony is sought.” Id at 25.
It is clear from Lepis
and its progeny that motion courts have found that the marital standard of
living is an essential component in the changed circumstances analysis when
reviewing an application for modification of alimony. Id
The Supreme Court then clarified that the procedures to be
implemented at the time a settled case is put through as follows:
“accordingly,
lest there be an insufficient record for the settlement, the court should
require the parties to place on the record the basis for the alimony award
including, in pertinent part, establishment of the marital standing of
living, before the court accepts the divorce agreement.”
Id at 26.
Further
complicating the job of matrimonial attorneys and judges, the court further
noted that reliance upon the Case Information Statement (CIS) will not be
sufficient. The court reasoned
that since such documents generally “reflect a more current financial
picture of the parties,” they do not reflect the standard of living
enjoyed during the marriage. Therefore,
that information is not a substitute for the party’s stipulation
[or testimony] on the marital standard of living.
Id
The need to determine the marital standard of living was also
discussed in last year’s Appellate Division case of Carter
v Carter 318 N.J. Supra 34 (App.Div. 1999).
In Carter, the Appellate
Court addressed the issue of whether a dependant spouse could seek alimony
after the rehabilitative alimony had expired.
Additionally, the court addressed the issue of what special procedure
would be required to be employed by a trial court entering a judgement of
divorce, whether settled or tried, when rehabilitative alimony was involved.
The Appellate Court found that by statute, trial courts must make
specific findings on rehabilitative alimony, even in cases where a
settlement is obtained. When
granting rehabilitative alimony or when endorsing a rehabilitative alimony
provision where rehabilitative alimony is a negotiated term of a Property
Settlement Agreement, the Appellate Court mandated that trial judges examine
each party as to the parties’ comprehension of the rehabilitative alimony
provision including but not limited to
(A)
the reasons for rehabilitative alimony;
(B)
the standard of living which existed during the marriage;
(C)
the dependent spouse’s rehabilitation goals, and
(D)
whether the parties contemplated the continuation of alimony beyond the end
of the term of rehabilitative alimony.
This
is especially needed where one of both of the parties may incorrectly
believe that the duty to pay alimony will conclude at the end of the
rehabilitative alimony. The Carter
court reasoned that the lack of testimony on the topic of rehabilitative
alimony at the divorce proceeding places a motion judge presiding at an
ensuing change of circumstances hearing at a disadvantage in reconciling the
needs of each party as of the date of the change of circumstances motion
with the needs of each party as of the date of the divorce.
As in CREWS,
a “baseline” was viewed as critical.
Just as our Supreme Court has recently done, the Carter Appellate Court found that when determining whether or not to
modify alimony, the “overriding equitable consideration is a determination
of whether the former marital standard of living is being maintained.”
Id et 46.
Methods to
Present Lifestyle
We propose three basic ways to present the marital lifestyle to your
adversary and, ultimately, to a court at the time of trial or an uncontested
hearing. Ideally, the most
efficient and cost effective method, is to enter into an “Income &
Lifestyle Stipulation”. When
that fails, there are generally two alternative methods to present
lifestyle. The first is a
narrative with little documentary back-up.
The last and preferable method, is a comprehensive “Lifestyle
Analysis” by a qualified forensic accountant.
I.
Agreement as to Baseline via the “Crews Stipulation”
There may be situations where the parties can agree to the essential
baseline elements required by CREWS. In
such situations, it is proposed that a uniform form of stipulation be used
to work toward and present an agreement on the baseline.
Such a form of stipulation should address the categories of
expenditures of everyday life. These
categories can include, but may not necessarily be limited to the following:
-
Marital residence
-
Vacation Homes
-
Other real estate or real property investments
-
Improvements to real estate
-
Extent of savings in bank or investment accounts
-
Extent of automobiles, boats, planes, motorcycles or other vehicles
or recreational crafts
-
Extent of vacations
-
Extent of furs and jewelry
-
Nature of stores frequented
-
Country clubs
-
Extent of entertainment including but not limited to: gambling,
sports and hobbies, restaurants, theatre, movies and the like
-
Extent of gifts
-
Extent of service providers such as household help, gardeners,
maintenance personnel and the like
-
Nature, extent and value of household furniture and furnishings,
including collectibles and artwork
-
Children’s expenses, including but not limited to private school,
camps, tutoring or extracurricular activities
-
Available cash
-
Available free time
-
Personal expenses run through a business
-
Pets
Each of the foregoing may or may not be applicable in every case. Further, there may be additional items that may be required.
Nevertheless, if a matrimonial litigant opines as to the majority of
these topics it will have a significant impact in conveying the marital
standard of living or lifestyle.
A proposed form of stipulation to embody the parties’ understanding
of the “baseline” is attached to this article.
Ultimately, this “Crews Stipulation” can be offered as “J-2”
into evidence, after the Property Settlement Agreement.
Obviously, the form attached is very broad and every aspect thereof
may not be applicable in every case. However,
it provides a general outline for constructing and tailoring a stipulation
that will be right for any particular case.
It is critical to note that the fact that parties may not be able to
agree on all values or aspects of the baseline should not eliminate the
ability to enter into a “Crews Stipulation”.
In such situations, a range of values can be inserted into the
stipulation thereby giving a general sense of lifestyle, even though a
precise value is in dispute. In
other words, whether the parties lived in a $1.5 million house versus a $1.9
million house, doesn’t change the fact that they were living a high
lifestyle. This will still be
of great service to a judge years later if a post-judgment to modify support
motion is filed.
If such a uniform stipulation were adopted, it would provide much
assistance with the every day problems facing matrimonial judges and
practitioners in light of the mandates issued by our Supreme Court
II.
Narrative Approach
When no stipulation can be reached, the simplest method of presenting
the “marital lifestyle” (whether to the attorney for the other spouse or
a judge at the time of a trial or uncontested hearing) is in a narrative
form. There may be little or no
documentary backup with this approach.
The narrative can track the items referenced in the proposed “Crews
Stipulation” herein submitted.
III.
Lifestyle Report by Accountant
Where a stipulation cannot be reached and the narrative approach is
insufficient, the lifestyle must be adequately analyzed and presented. In such instances, an analysis by a forensic accountant who
has reviewed all of the spending records of the parties including but not
limited to checks, cash withdrawals from bank or investment accounts, and
credit card expenditures over a period of years prior to the parties’
separation or filing of complaint for divorce (whichever first occurs) will
be very effective in presenting the “marital lifestyle”.
The first step of a lifestyle audit is to compile all documentation
containing the expenditures of the parties.
Such documentation normally consists of checking account records and
credit card statements for a three year period prior to the parties’
separation or filing of complaint for divorce (whichever first occurs). The accountant will then review every check, credit card
transaction and/or debit card transaction so that they may be categorized.
The categories presented should mirror those appearing in a standard
Case Information Statement “CIS”.
In other words, the format of the analysis of the three years prior
to separation (as well as the “reconstructed” budget) should be broken
down among Schedule A, Shelter Expenses; Schedule B, Transportation
Expenses; and Schedule C, Personal Expenses.
The product of this procedure is a schedule in the lifestyle audit
report presenting a three year comparison of expenditures utilizing the CIS
format. The three year analysis
will include all spending by both parties for themselves and their children.
Once total expenditure levels for a three year base period have been
identified, a “reconstructed” marital lifestyle budget for the dependent
spouse and children (as applicable) can be prepared.
Beginning with Schedule A; Shelter and its first category mortgage
payments and proceeding down each category of Schedules A, B and C a
determination must be made as to the appropriate level of expense to be
inserted into various categories of the marital lifestyle budget.
In preparing the budget many issues must be addressed, some of which
will require input from the matrimonial attorney. These issues include, but are not limited to the following:
Current Actual Expenditures - Certain budgetary expense
categories are easily determined based upon current actual expenditures.
A mortgage payment is a typical example of such a category.
In determining the appropriate expense level for a category such as
mortgage payments, clearly the actual current expenditure level or the
expenditure level just prior to the parties separation is appropriate as
opposed to an average or modified average for the three year period
presented.
Averaging Expenditures - When dealing with discretionary
expenditures, it is appropriate to use an average of the three years in
developing an appropriate expense level.
Although the case law specifically states that the lifestyle is
measured as of the date of separation, it is more credible at times, to use
a three year average, unless circumstances justify using a longer or shorter
period. Examples of such
expenditure which should typically be averaged are:
Repairs and Maintenance; Food, Restaurants, clothing, vacations,
gifts, savings and entertainment.
Modifying the Averages.
Certain expenditure categories, although consistent throughout the three
year period compiled, will require modification due to factors such as the
following:
a.
Expenditures attributable to the supporting spouse must be
eliminated. Such expenditures
will impact a variety of categories such as food, clothing, vacations,
entertainment etc.. At times
expenditure categories may have to be eliminated entirely if attributable
directly to the supporting spouse.
b.
Expenditures paid directly by the supporting spouse.
Expenditures such as life insurance payments which appear in the
three year comparison of expenditures but will be paid directly by a
supporting spouse need to be eliminated in developing a lifestyle budget for
the dependent spouse.
c.
Expenditures that will be effected by child sharing arrangements need
to be adjusted if appropriate. If
the supporting spouse has significant periods of custody, expenditures for
such categories as food and household supplies must be modified.
Expenses Paid From a Business.
In certain situations, expenditures of the dependent spouse are paid
directly from the supporting spouse’s businesses and therefore will not
appear on the three year comparison of expenditures.
A common example is automobile expenses.
In such cases, actual expenditures coming from the business must be
quantified and added to the appropriate expense category.
Further, if a current vehicle is expected to reach it’s useful end
soon, an estimated replacement expense should be inserted.
Nonrecurring Expenditures. Certain
expense categories may include nonrecurring expenditures such as the
installation of landscaping or renovations to a home.
The lifestyle budget may be adjusted for such nonrecurring expenses.
Deferred Expenditures. At
times, the three years of comparative expenditures will not include a
deferred expense such as a roof replacement or excess miles on an auto
lease. Such issues should be discussed with the client and the
lifestyle budget adjusted accordingly.
Cash Expenditures. Cash
expenditures may at times be difficult to categorize.
Such expenses should be reviewed with the clients and repetitive cash
expenditures for such items as domestic help be appropriately classified.
Elimination of Periods Presented.
Although it is suggested that the three year period prior to the date
of separation or filing of the complaint (whichever first occurs) be
utilized in developing a lifestyle analysis, at times, it may be necessary
to eliminate a period because it is not indicative of the marital lifestyle.
This may occur because of excess expenditures or the minimization of
expenditures in contemplation of divorce.
If the supporting spouse leaves the marital residence mid year this
will effect total expenditure levels and therefore the usefulness of the
information on lifestyle provided for that year.
Further, a supporting spouse may not be providing sufficient funds to
a the dependent spouse or household, thereby artificially reducing
expenditures.
It should be noted that the departure of the supporting spouse from
the marital residence for an extended period, prior to separation or the
filing of the date of Complaint, can at times result in the best possible
financial information for purposes of preparing a marital lifestyle budget
report. (Caveat: This assumes that the supporting spouse is providing
sufficient funds consistent with historic spending.)
With the supporting spouse out of the marital residence reductions in
the various expense categories become clear.
Therefore, rather than having to make a subjective determination of
the percentage of such items as food and household supplies attributable to
the supporting spouse in determining the various expenditure levels in the
marital lifestyle audit report, we have actual figures.
Under such circumstances, it may be best to utilize only the most
recent one year period if it presents figures which only represent the
lifestyle of the dependent spouse and children.
Conclusion of Lifestyle
Analysis. After reviewing
each expense category and taking the above-referenced issues and factors
into consideration, the conclusion of the Lifestyle Audit should be
presented once again utilizing the CIS format and presenting the marital
lifestyle budget on an Annual and Monthly basis.
In this “reconstructed” budget, each expense category disclosed
should be accompanied by a footnote indicating the manner in which the
expense was derived, i.e., current actual expense level, three year average,
etc.
Credibility is the key in performing a lifestyle audit.
The determination of certain expense categories involves, to a
certain extent, subjective determinations.
Such determinations must be based upon reasonable presumptions after
consultation with the client (and perhaps a meeting with both parties and
their counsel) and a reasonable review of all available data.
The conclusion must be consistent with the facts and circumstances of
the case in hand.
Finally, an important component to a lifestyle audit is the
disclosure of the sources of the information presented.
The specific bank accounts, credit cards and account numbers should
be clearly disclosed. This will
avoid situations in which the dependent spouse claims source expenditures
were not included in the lifestyle audit and the results of the audit and
spending levels understated.
CONCLUSION
It is important to realize that presentation of marital lifestyle is
not something that can wait until trial.
Adequately presenting the parties standard of living during
settlement negotiations will significantly strengthen your position whether
you are representing the supported or supporting spouse.
The recent pronouncement from the Supreme Court has emphasized the
need to adequately assess and present the “marital lifestyle” in the
course of matrimonial proceedings. Although
there are many factors incident to an alimony award in a divorce case, “lifestyle”
is arguably one of the most important.
Although it would be folly to believe that the marital standard of
living is the only issue to address, it would likewise be folly to diminish
its importance in the overall scheme of a divorce action.
Although the narrative
approach of presenting lifestyle is fine in many cases, it is herein
submitted that in cases of significant income and net worth, it is prudent
for the matrimonial attorney to retain the services of a qualified forensic
accountant to perform the “lifestyle analysis”, in a manner similar to
that presented herein, so that the parties, counsel and ultimately, the
court, is fully aware of the full extent of the “marital lifestyle” that
the parties enjoyed during the marriage so that a support award may be
fashioned to allow each party to maintain a reasonably comparable lifestyles
post divorce.
CREWS
STIPULATION
AS TO
INCOME & LIFESTYLE
THIS STIPULATION made by and entered into this _____ day of
______________, 2000 by and between _____________, residing at
__________________,, New Jersey _________, hereinafter referred to as the
"Husband", and ____________, residing at
____________________________, New Jersey, ________, hereinafter referred to
as the "Wife",
WITNESSETH:
WHEREAS,
the parties hereto were duly married on ______________; and
WHEREAS, the parties have or intend to enter into a comprehensive
Property Settlement Agreement resolving all issues raised regarding their
marital dispute, and
WHEREAS, the parties acknowledge that their Agreement includes terms
regarding alimony; and that the decision
of CREWS v CREWS, 164 N.J. 11 (2000) requires a “baseline” to be set.
WHEREAS, The parties seek to submit this Stipulation as their
compliance with the CREWS requirements by agreeing to that baseline in two
respects: (1) Income upon which support was based and (2) lifestyle.
I.
INCOME
The parties agree that the current support structure of their
Agreement, is based on the following current actual or imputed annual
incomes:
HUSBAND:
$________________ (actual/imputed)
WIFE: $_________________(actual/imputed)
The parties further agree that they contemplate the following changes
in their respective incomes:
HUSBAND:
$________________
Explanation:_________________________________________
______________________________________________________
WIFE:
$_________________
Explanation:_________________________________________
______________________________________________________
LIFESTYLE
The parties agree to the following as to the marital lifestyle that
they enjoyed during the marriage:
-
Marital residence
-
Vacation Homes
-
Other real estate or real
property investments
-
Improvements to real estate
-
Extent of savings in bank
or investment accounts
-
Extent of automobiles,
boats, planes, motorcycles or other vehicles or recreational crafts
-
Extent of vacations
-
Extent of furs and jewelry
-
Nature of stores frequented
-
Country clubs
-
Extent of entertainment
including but not limited to: gambling, sports and hobbies, restaurants,
theatre, movies and the like
-
Extent of savings
-
Extent of gifts
-
Extent of service providers
such as household help, gardeners, maintenance personnel and the like
-
Nature, extent and value of
household furniture and furnishings, including collectibles and artwork
-
Children’s expenses,
including but not limited to private school, camps, tutoring or
extracurricular activities
-
Available cash
-
Available free time
-
Personal expenses run
through a business
-
Pets
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties have hereunder set their hands
and seals the day and year written below their respective names.
SIGNED
SEALED & DELIVERED
IN
THE PRESENCE OF:
as
to Husband
DATED:____________________
as
to Wife
CHARLES F. VUOTTO,
JR., ESQ.
Mr.
Vuotto is a shareholder of the law firm of Wilentz, Goldman & Spitzer
and was admitted to the Bar of the State of New Jersey and to the U.S.
District Court of the District of New Jersey in 1986.
He was graduated from Seton Hall University with a Bachelor of Arts
degree in 1983 and from Ohio Northern University, Claude W. Pettit College
of Law, with the degree of Juris Doctor in 1986.
He is a member of the New Jersey State, Union and Middlesex County
Bar Associations and a member of each association's Family Law Section.
He was Past Chairman of the "Special Projects"
Subcommittee, (1987-1989). He
is also a member of the American Bar Association and its Family Law Section.
Mr. Vuotto has lectured on Family Law on behalf of the New Jersey Bar
Foundation. He continues to
lecture to the public and the bar, including an annual seminar addressing
the past year’s Family Law cases. Mr.
Vuotto has published articles on the topic of Family Law and has assisted,
with the rest of the Matrimonial Law Attorneys of his firm, in preparing and
presenting a Digest of Cases in conjunction with their annual seminar. Mr. Vuotto was appointed as a “Discovery Master” by the
Superior Court and is an active panelist of the Union County Early
Settlement Program and has served as a Blue Ribbon panelist for the Essex
County Early Settlement Program.
CARL D. GENSIB,
ESQ., CPA
Mr.
Gensib is a self-employed, Certified Public Accountant and Attorney at Law
practicing in North Brunswick, New Jersey.
His practice covers a wide range of engagements including personal
income tax, corporate income tax, partnership tax, estate tax, gift tax,
generation skipping tax and tax of deferred compensation.
Mr. Gensib has also had extensive involvement in the valuation of
closely held businesses in connection with matrimonial litigation and estate
tax valuation. Mr. Gensib is a member of The American Institute of Certified
Public Accountants, The American Bas Association, The New Jersey Bar
Association, the Middlesex County Bar Association and a Fellow of the New
Jersey Society of Certified Public Accountants. He has been qualified as an expert in the field of forensic
accounting, income determination and business valuation in the Superior
Court of most counties in New Jersey.
WILENTZ,
GOLDMAN & SPITZER
A Professional Corporation
90 Woodbridge Center Drive
P.O. Box 10
Woodbridge, New Jersey 07095-0958
(732) 636-8000
Attorneys for Defendant
_________ COURT OF NEW
JERSEY
_________ DIVISION, FAMILY PART
_________ COUNTY
DOCKET NO. _______________
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:
MOTHER,
:
:
:
Plaintiff,
:
Civil Action
:
v.
:
PARENTING PLAN
:
FATHER
,
:
:
:
Defendant.
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:
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The parties agree to the following terms and conditions related to the
parenting of their children.
This parenting plan shall determine the procedures for the day-to-day
care of the children listed in Section 1.3.
This parenting plan is proposed by the defendant.
GENERAL
INFORMATION
Father’s
Address And Employment Information.
Name:
Father
Address:
__________
Home
Phone:
__________
Soc.
Sec. Number:
__________
Employer
and Address:
__________
Work
Phone:
__________
Mother’s
Address And Employment Information.
Name:
Mother
Address:
__________
__________
Home
Phone:
__________
Soc.
Sec. Number:
__________
Employer
and Address:
__________
Work
Phone:
Dependent
Children Information.
Name:
__________
Date
of Birth
__________
Soc.
Sec. Number:
__________
Name:
__________
Date
of Birth:
__________
Soc.Sec.
Number:
__________
TYPE
OF CUSTODY ARRANGEMENT.
1.
Custody of the children in this case shall be as follows:
2.
The parties shall have joint legal and joint physical custody of the
unemancipated children of the marriage, and shall confer on all matters of
importance including those specifically delineated herein.
3.
When the children are with one party, that party shall be designated
the Primary Caretaker of the children.
4.
Legal custody is defined in the New Jersey Supreme Court case of Pascale
v. Pascale and includes the legal right to make major decisions affecting
the best interests of the minor children, (including but not limited to
decisions relating to medical care, religious upbringing, education,
extracurricular activities and camp).
5.
The parties acknowledge that Joint Legal Custody and Joint Physical
Custody obligates them to communicate with each other when required for the
best interests of the children.
6.
The parties agree that on all matters of relative importance relating
to the health, education and general welfare of the children, they will confer
with each other with a view to adopt and follow those policies which are in
the best interests of the children. The
parties respectively shall promptly notify the other of illness and other
matters or problems affecting the children and their just welfare and
interest, and shall also notify the other as to their residence and telephone
numbers.
7.
It is expressly understood by both parties that neither shall do
anything to alienate the childrens’ affection or to color the childrens’
attitude toward the other. On the contrary, both parties shall cooperate in every way to
help the children better adjust themselves to the circumstances as they now
exist, and may in the future exist. Both
parties shall conduct themselves in a manner that shall be best for the
interest, welfare and happiness of the children, and neither party shall do
anything which shall adversely affect the morals, health and welfare of the
children.
REASONS
FOR SELECTION OF CUSTODY TYPE.
8.
Joint legal and physical custody will provide the children with
stability and continuity while fostering a normal relationship between the
children and both parents. Both
parents agree on the absolute necessity to provide a safe and emotionally
healthy environment for the children.
EQUAL TIME SHARING
SCHEDULE
9.
These provisions set forth where the children shall reside each day of
the year and what contact the children shall have with each parent.
The plan shall commence effective with the signing this Parenting Plan.
REGULAR
SCHEDULE.
(DURING SCHOOL SESSION)
10.
The Father shall have custody of the children from 5:00 p.m. Sunday
through Wednesday morning drop off at school.
The Mother shall have custody from Wednesday after school through 9:00
a.m. Saturday. On non-school
Wednesdays, the transfer shall occur at 1:00 p.m.
11.
The parties shall alternate weekends from 9:00 a.m. Saturday through
5:00 p.m. Sunday. The Father
shall have the children on the
first and third weekends of the month and the Mother shall have the children
on the second and fourth weekends of the month.
12.
During months when there is a fifth weekend, the parties shall share
the children as follows:
The
first fifth weekend of the year, the Mother shall have custody of _______ from
Saturday at 9:00 a.m. through Sunday at 9:00 a.m., and she will then have
_________ with her from Sunday at 9:00 a.m. through Sunday at 5:00 p.m. The
Father shall have custody of Child from 9:00 a.m. Saturday through Sunday at
9:00 a.m. and will have _______ from Sunday
at 9:00 a.m. through Sunday at 5:00 p.m..
The next fifth weekend the Mother shall have custody of Child from
Saturday at 9:00 a.m. through Sunday at 9:00 a.m., and then she will have
______ with her from Sunday at 9:00 a.m. through Sunday at 5:00 p.m. The
Father shall have custody of _______ from 9:00 a.m. on Saturday through Sunday
at 9:00 a.m., and then he will have Child from Sunday at 9:00 a.m. through
Sunday at 5:00 p.m.
13.
The parents intend to be flexible with the time sharing schedule,
making adjustments to accommodate each other’s requests for special
occasions.
14.
In the event that either parent is unable to be with the children for
any extended time (i.e. afternoon or evening) during his/her parenting time
and would otherwise leave the children in the care of any third party, care of
the children should be offered in the following order:
(1) Other parent; (2) Grandparents; (3) Other family members, as
mutually agreed to. Only after
these options are exhausted shall the children be placed in the care of a
babysitter.
15.
The parents shall be responsible for supervising the children’s
homework and special projects during their respective parenting times.
TELEPHONE CONTACT
16.
The non-residential parent may phone the children once daily.
The children shall be permitted to phone the non-residential parent as
frequently as they request.
SCHEDULE
FOR SCHOOL BREAKS.
SPRING BREAK:
17.
The parties shall follow the normal residential schedule.
WINTER BREAK:
18.
The parties shall follow the normal residential schedule.
19.
During both recesses, the grandparents may opt to spend time with the
children.
SUMMER
SCHEDULE.
20.
Upon completion of the school year, the children shall continue to
reside with the parties under the normal residential schedule.
VACATION
WITH PARENTS.
21.
Each parent is entitled to one uninterrupted week of vacation during
the school year and a second week of uninterrupted vacation during the summer
school recess. Prior to vacationing with the children, each parent shall
provide the other parent with an itinerary and emergency contact numbers where
the children can be reached.
SCHEDULE
FOR HOLIDAYS.
22.
The parties shall have custodial time with the children for a
particular holiday in odd or even years, as detailed in the chart below:
With Mother
With Father
(Odd/Even/Every)
Odd/Even/Every)
New
Year’s Eve & Day
Normal residential schedule
Martin
Luther King Day
Every
Day
before President’s Day Every
President’s
Day
Every
Passover:
First Night
Odd
Even
Passover:
Second Night
Even
Odd
Good
Friday (9 am-7:30 p.m.)
Every
Memorial
Day (9 am-7:30 p.m.)
Odd
Even
4th
of July (9 am-7:30 p.m.) Every
Labor
Day (Monday only)
Even
Odd
(9 am -
7:30 p.m.)
Rosh
Hashanah
Odd
Even
Yom
Kippur Even
Odd
Columbus
Day School Holiday Odd
Even
(9 am -
7:30 p.m.)
Election
Day School Holiday
Even Odd
(9 am -
7:30 p.m.)
Veterans
Day School Holiday
Odd
Even
(9 am -
7:30 p.m.)
Halloween
Normal residential schedule
Thanksgiving
(Thurs & Fri)
Even
Odd
Thanksgiving
(Sat & Sunday) Odd
Even
Mother’s
Day & Mother’s Bday
Every
(9 a.m. to
7:30 p.m.)
Father’s
Day & Father’s Bday
Every
(9 a.m. to
7:30 p.m.)
SCHEDULE
FOR CHILDREN’S BIRTHDAYS AND OTHER HOLIDAYS.
23.
Each parent is entitled to two hours with the children on their
birthdays. The non-custodial
parent shall have the first option to take the children to dinner.
If either parent opts to have a birthday celebration for the children,
it shall be planned during his/her own parenting time.
24.
If there are additional holidays not delineated above, parenting time
for these holidays shall abide the normal residential schedule.
TRANSPORTATION
ARRANGEMENTS.
25.
Transportation for the Father’s parenting time with the children on
the first and third weekends of the month beginning on Saturday morning shall
be provided by the Husband. Transportation
for the Mother’s parenting time on the second and fourth weekends of the
month ending on Sunday evenings at 5:00 p.m. shall be provided by the Mother.
On the fifth weekend of the month, the Father shall pick up one child
on Saturday morning and the Mother will return one child on Sunday evening.
All pick ups on Saturdays will be the Father’s responsibility and all
drop offs on Sundays shall be the Mother’s responsibility.
ACCESS TO MEDICAL
& SCHOOL RECORDS
26.
Each parent shall be entitled to complete information from any
pediatrician, general physician, dentist, consultant, specialist or other
medical or mental health professional attending to the children for any reason
whatsoever and shall be provided with copies of any reports (whether oral or
written.)
27.
Each parent shall be entitled to complete information from any teacher,
tutor or school giving instructions to the children.
Each parent shall get copies of all reports from any school which the
children may attend. Either party
receiving notices of school schedule, teacher notes or report cards shall have
the affirmative obligation to supply the other parent with a copy.
28.
All schools attended by the children shall have each parent’s address
and phone number, and both addresses will be known as the official addresses
for purposes of school records.
DECISION MAKING
Day
To Day Decisions.
29.
Each parent shall make decisions regarding the day-to-day care and
control of each child while the children are residing with that parent.
Each parent shall respect the parenting skills and abilities of the
other parent. Regardless of the
allocation of decision making in this Parenting Plan, either parent may make
emergency decisions affecting the health or safety of the children when the
children are in his/her care and will notify the other parent as soon as
possible. The residential parent shall immediately notify the other parent in
the event of any serious illness (high fever, accident or other illness
requiring medical attention), while the children are in that parent’s care.
Major
Decisions.
30.
The Husband and the Wife shall consult and agree with each other with
respect to all major decisions concerning the children’s education,
illnesses, operations, medical care, health, welfare and other matters of
similar importance affecting the children, whose well-being, education and
development shall at all times be the paramount concern of the Husband and the
Wife. The parties shall always discuss such decisions together prior to
informing the children of their decision.
OTHER PROVISIONS
31.
Both parties shall keep each other informed of
their residence and phone number, and shall promptly notify the other
of any changes. If either parent
is out of town for two or more consecutive nights, he or she will provide the
other parent with a phone number where he/she can be reached in case of an
emergency.
32.
Grandparents, aunts, uncles shall be entitled to visitation upon
reasonable notice to the custodial parent. Each of the parties’ relatives
are to choose times when the children are with their relative to visit.
For instance, Ms. _____’s parents should not be attempting to visit
the children during Mr. ____’s time with the children, and vice- versa.
Should either parent predecease the other, the deceased spouse’s parents,
brothers and sisters shall be entitled to visitation upon reasonable notice.
33.
In the event that any change should occur in the circumstances
affecting the children’s access to either parent, residential care and
arrangements shall be considered by the parents in light of the then existing
circumstances. These may include
but not be limited to physical or mental disability, work schedule changes and
financial status changes. In any scenario, every effort shall be made to facilitate
continued access of the children to both parents in as close to the current
residential schedule as possible.
34.
If either party moves to a distance greater than fifty miles or one
hour travel time to the other party, then the above provisions shall no longer
apply and shall require renegotiations..
DISPUTE RESOLUTION
35.
If a dispute should arise between the parties concerning the parenting
schedule or other related issues which the parties cannot resolve between
themselves, they shall first consult with the court appointed custody mediator
who assisted them in arriving at the current Parenting Plan, two wit:
___________ or other court appointed custody mediator if Ms. _____ is not
available, to resolve the dispute. If
the parties mutually agree, they may utilize another qualified custody
mediator, mutually agreed upon. The
parties need not be compelled to resort to mediation in the event of an
emergency.
IN
WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties have hereunder set their hands and seals the
day and year written below their respective names.
SIGNED
SEALED & DELIVERED
IN
THE PRESENCE OF:
___________________________
______________________________
CHARLES F. VUOTTO, JR., ESQ.
FATHER
as
to Husband
DATED:____________________
___________________________
______________________________
MOTHER
as
to Wife
DATED:____________________
CHARLES F. VUOTTO,
JR., ESQ.
Mr.
Vuotto is a shareholder of the law firm of Wilentz, Goldman & Spitzer and
was admitted to the Bar of the State of New Jersey and to the U.S. District
Court of the District of New Jersey in 1986.
He was graduated from Seton Hall University with a Bachelor of Arts
degree in 1983 and from Ohio Northern University, Claude W. Pettit College of
Law, with the degree of Juris Doctor in 1986.
He is a member of the New Jersey State, Union and Middlesex County Bar
Associations and a member of each association's Family Law Section.
He was Past Chairman of the "Special Projects" Subcommittee,
(1987-1989). He is also a member
of the American Bar Association and its Family Law Section. Mr. Vuotto has lectured on Family Law on behalf of the New
Jersey Bar Foundation. He
continues to lecture to the public and the bar, including an annual seminar
addressing the past year’s Family Law cases.
Mr. Vuotto has published articles on the topic of Family Law and has
assisted, with the rest of the Matrimonial Law Attorneys of his firm, in preparing
and presenting a Digest of Cases in conjunction with their annual seminar. Mr. Vuotto was appointed as a “Discovery Master” by the
Superior Court and is an active panelist of the Union County Early Settlement
Program and has served as a Blue Ribbon panelist for the Essex County Early
Settlement Program.
GRANDPARENT
VISITATION RIGHTS
The United States Supreme Court has granted a Writ of Certiorari in
the case of In re The Visitation of Natalie Anne Troxel, Isabelle Rose
Troxel, minors, Jennifer Troxel and Gary Troxel, 173 Wash. 2d 1, 969
P.2d, 21 (1998) involving the constitutionality of the Washington State
legislation creating third party visitation rights.
(Note: the visitation statute under scrutiny in the Washington case
did not specifically relate to grandparent visitation, but rather to the
broader category of third parties.) The Supreme Court of Washington ruled that the State's third
party visitation statute authorizing visitation over parental objection
was constitutionally flawed under the Federal Constitution.
The Court concluded that neither the State's police powers nor the parens
patriae responsibility could be invoked as justification in the
absence of harm to the physical or mental health of the child or to public
safety, peace, order, or welfare. The
Washington Court held that:
Short
of preventing harm to the child, the standard of "best interests of
the child" is insufficient to serve as a compelling State interest
overruling a parent's fundamental rights.
State intervention to better a child's quality of life through
third party visitation is not justified where the child's circumstances
are otherwise satisfactory. To
suggest otherwise would be the logical equivalent to asserting that the
State has the authority to break up stable families and redistribute its
infant population to provide each child with the "best family."
Id. supra 969 P.2d at 31-32.
The matter is currently scheduled for argument in January 2000 with
a decision expected sometime in the middle of next year.
New Jersey has a much more specific grandparent visitation statute,
to wit N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1 that provides that "a grandparent or
any sibling of a child residing in the State may make application before
the Superior Court, in accordance with the Rules of Court, for an order
for visitation. It is the
burden of the applicant to prove by a preponderance of the evidence that
the granting of visitation is in the best interest of the child."
(N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1(a)).
In making a determination on an application filed pursuant to this
statute, a court is required to consider the following factors:
1.
The relationship between the child and the applicant;
2.
. The relationship
between each of the child's parents or the person with whom the child is
residing and the applicant;
3.
The time which has elapsed since the child last had contact with
the applicant.
4.
The effect that such visitation will have on the relationship
between the child and the child's parents or the person with whom the
child is residing;
5.
If the parents are divorced or separated, the time sharing
arrangement which exists between the parents with regard to the child;
6.
The good faith of the applicant in filing the application;
7.
Any history of physical, emotional or sexual abuse or neglect by
the applicant; and
8.
Any other factor relevant to the best interests of the child.
N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1(b).
With regard to any application made pursuant to this statute, it is
a prima facie evidence that
visitation is in the child's best interest if the applicant had, in the
past, been a full time caretaker for the child.
(N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1(c)).
New Jersey's grandparent visitation statute was revised on June 29,
1993 to eliminate the requirements of divorce, death or separation having
to exist before a grandparent (or sibling) could make an application to
the Court for visitation.
Recent New Jersey cases have evidenced a desire to permit
grandparents and other third parties to seek visitation of children or
unemancipated individuals. For
instance, in a 1995 trial decision out of Camden County, grandparents were
permitted to intervene in an adoption case.
In another trial level case in 1996 a stepdaughter was granted
visitation with her mother over the objection of a stepfather.
In an appellate case from 1995 a grandmother was viewed as “standing
in the shoes of her deceased daughter” in a custody dispute against the
foster parent.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, decisions across the country with
regard to the constitutionality of grandparent/third-party visitation
statutes are not consistent and, as a result, a pronouncement from our
Nation's Supreme Court would be quite enlightening as to the viability of
such laws.
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